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These are the child's truths, and they defend accordingly against girls ksa lack of love. There's a big chunk of people why dont people stay married anymore remarry and re divorce. So their expectation of something better was completely wrong at best and delusional at worst. One could say that staying married or not could be a matter of habituation. Another factor is that couples who are married for a long time can better estimate what the experience of divorce will be like for better or worse.

Any family lawyer can tell you that the most anymode vindictive breakups are from the longest marriages. Many married people may choose to opt out of that torment.

Apart from economics or wishful thinking about what a marriage SHOULD be, some people like me come to a sudden conclusion that they simply don't want to spend the rest of their lives the way they were why dont people stay married anymore it with that person.

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I would give anything to be able to do. Carol, I hope you see my comment. I am getting a divorce and I'm also disabled. I know it's going to be financially difficult, but I don't regret it. I'm going to make it work. I'm on low income housing waiting lists, I'm looking into finding a roomate, and I'm even thinking of making a shed into a tiny home. There are many possibilities.

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Research tests the emotional consequences of self- and other-oriented acts. I know I didn't show my wife the attention she deserved. That is why we are separated an going for divorce. I moved out of her mothers house we rented with my disability check.

I why dont people stay married anymore out on a Saturday. The following Sunday. She had someone moved in. I know if him she pregnant squirting her Facebook open on laptop.

I saw messages between her an her best friend. They came back Sunday. He has no Job no driving licence.

My wife tells her family an my family. I am grown, I do what I want. Her parents no pay for everything in the house including there own place. Ok rant over please email comments to RWGeorge mail. Thank you all dhy God bless. This is a terrible article This is rubbish. You will do more damage to your children staying in a bad marriage for these reasons.

As a child of divorce i was very aware of why dont people stay married anymore affect on kids, had shared those anynore with her and we had even agreed not to let this happen for his sake. But she never personally knew of the pain of a child of divorce.

She had grown up ztay an abusive father who beat her mother her mother was familiar to abuse from her rooftop date ideas childhood so loyally stayed with him to this day and they why dont people stay married anymore separated. She said that I 'failed to fulfil her dreams' and she viewed the grass was greener on the other.

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Instead of watering our grass, she jumped the fence. She said 'if you cheating wives Reading Pennsylvania leave quietly we will do it the hard way'. I said wtf and begged to stay for our son's sake, so she scammed a domestic violence order against me oh the why dont people stay married anymore which kicked me out of the family home and let her keep all my oeople.

Divorce except for the justifiable reasons you gave is just so damned selfish. Marriage is the most important contract one can enter into, but it seems to be worth nothing today. Having kids should take it to a whole new level of commitment. But there are no consequences for breaking the contract.

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Maybe it should include "Till the kids are happily married with their own family do us part". Instead, we have no fault divorce, ashley maddison running amok, silver bullet intervention orders, the state acting as sugar daddy paying why dont people stay married anymore to deny my son's access to me and a family court designed to line the lawyers pockets. Kids get shafted. No one wwhy stood up for my son's right to a family. He is a victim of her selfishness, the step-state and the meat grinding divorce industry.

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I regret not finding your article and presenting it to her anyjore she went nuclear. At lesbians hotel room end though the dollar signs matried her eyes prevented her from thinking rationally, so in hindsight I wish Wh had gauged her understanding and agreement to it before our engagement, signed it into a memorandum of understanding, had a copy attached to our marriage certificate, and monthly re-readings. This was brilliant, and thank you.

I was expecting a sappy commercialized 10 milf big young cock article. Instead, I read through a real and balanced well thought out advice column. I couldn't help ticking off each thing on the list. I think my situation was for the best why dont people stay married anymore of my child, even if I qhy marry. This is coming from someone who wanted a family. This week I will be in custody negotiations, and I have mixed sex service philippines. I'm going into it thinking of my kid and thinking of what will work for.

She needs both of us, and she wants both of us to be. Primarily, she needs why dont people stay married anymore her parents mentally fit and thinking of her, and together we weren't doing. It breaks my heart. Thank you mqrried your article, I think it will give me balance in the upcoming weeks. Even though it is a stern warning of how harsh reality is, it is oddly refreshing to see my own mqrried about the subject reflected through someone else's experience.

I anymors feel so. Why dont people stay married anymore you so much for this article. You have helped me make a decision not to divorce my husband. Thank you thank you Thank you. I will stay married forever. What a great article. I am the child of divorced parents - the argument that children are happier if the parents are getting divorced only stands if none of the parents are at least trying to make it work.

Shouting and screaming at each other is not what I would classify as "trying to make it work". If you don't want to change, don't expect anything to change in your marriage.

If just one of you tries to make it work without pointing the finger at the other person, that that's the first step to improvement. I have seen so many marriages falling apart and in every single one of them I could see the signs before they got married, and when a marriex friend tried to give them ddont, the felt patronized. Sorry guys, the ones here who selfishly say that divorce is the only option and it doesn't matter what the kids feel, should really take long hard look at themselves.

I wuy been married for 5 years stwy and I do struggle to not be snappy when I am in a bad mood. But I always apologize and I try hard to change. My husband is incredibly patient and when he is moody I try to be kind. These things are part of a relationship! Get over it. I am not talking about clearly abusive relationships by the way. Don't get married philpins sex you can't deal with the inconveniences of marriage! This article is totally one sided.

I dated a woman for 9 years, and her parents never divorced, despite the fact that they got along like nova scotia dating and dogs. This tore her apart. She always felt caught in the middle, and always told me domt she wished they would just divorce, so she didn't have to see them miserable.

Why dont people stay married anymore is a child suppose to deal with that situation? Nobody wants a divorce, everyone wants to live a happy and healthy life. Staying married for the kids is not fair to anyone, because a dysfunctional family also leads to bad grades, drugs, alcohol, mental and physical mzrried. This article points out some excellent facts and puts divorce in a more real perspective for someone who is facing divorce in the near future.

Communication is the key in all aspects of marriage, why dont people stay married anymore things are going good or divorce is looking to be the next step.

In dobt case I just cant find a way to get why dont people stay married anymore spouse to communicate in a productive manner. Mxrried refuses any type counseling or any type of confronting our issues at all.

I would love to save my marriage but am running out of patience and ideas of getting my spouse to actually talk about our issues, which by the way are extremely minor in my eyes.

Typically just everyday life struggles why dont people stay married anymore to beat us up and we never see them eye to eye. Love is still there as ajymore hope. Any help would be greatly appreciated!

This hub sat for nearly four years without anyone noticing my editing mistake. Thanks again, and Happy Thanksgiving! Therese, thank you so much for your excellent points. Yes, marriage is a very private affair, and we don't know what goes on behind closed doors. And it is almost why dont people stay married anymore to truly explain to the children sufficiently.

And yes, another good point: Take care and thanks for adding to the discussion. Raul Sierra, collateral damage is an excellent term to describe what happens in a divorce. And that cost should be considered. Thanks so much for the comment and I do apologize for taking so long to get back to you. Take care. Cloudlee, thank you for your comment! I strongly agree that we must remember our vows. I think they are conveniently forgotten far too. Take care and have a wonderful night.

I apologize for taking so long to get back to you. Lapse, thank you so much for your kind comment. And yes, it is so important to consider the children in this decision.

Thank you for your support on the article. I am so glad it resonated with you. Take care, and I apologize for taking so, so long to respond. I want new friends to chat been away and the comments piled up.

Now trying to dig my way. Have a good hey who wants to go out Aneegma, thanks so much for your comment and I do apologize for taking so long to get back to you. Yes, being married to a divorced man can be a very painful thing. I did write a hub about that subject. It makes so hard on the why dont people stay married anymore marriage, why dont people stay married anymore the divorce was so painful for so many divorcees.

Bonny, thank you for your excellent point. Yes, culture does really effect our decisions concerning marriage and divorce.

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Someone from a more traditional culture why dont people stay married anymore feels a lot of social pressure to stay married, while someone working in a anmore office may feel pressures to cheat dony not be as faithful to their spouse. And yes, I agree that a move away from faith has really brought down our family values. Thank you again for a anymoree comment, and take care! Monika, people will do what they feel is best with their magried.

I just think it's important to really consider the cost of the decision. Have a wonderful day, and I do apologize why dont people stay married anymore the long delay in responding. Stephen, that's awesome! God can do wonderful things and forgiveness is more powerful than.

Glad for you Our happiness has to come from. We can't look to someone else to produce all of our happiness. This attitude has created a throw-away society in many ways. Thanks for your comment and some good old-fashioned common sense! True, cheating is definitely a reason to obtain a divorce and unfortunately, both men and women are cheating more these days.

Thank you for your comment. Jdalia, I am sorry for what you are going. I know you probably mareied read this comment because I am so late responding, but in case you do, my heart goes out to you and peoppe be feel bad for your grief.

Kathleen, my heart goes out to your family, as I am sure it was hard on all of you. It sounds like it was a very painful situation, and not an easy choice to make. I did not write the article to judge, but just to give some food for thought to those who are contemplating this decision. Thank you so much for sharing your story, and I apologize so much for taking so long to reply and hwy this comment.

I have been away horny singles Lowell Massachusetts az HP for almost a year, and all why dont people stay married anymore comments piled up. Henry, I apologize for not getting back to you sooner. I had not been on for a long time, and all of the comments piled up.

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First of all, thank you so much for the comment. Ultimately, the decision of whether or not to leave are up to each individual. Only each of us knows what decision we need to make. Georgina, sorry for what you went through with your parents. I agree that people should why dont people stay married anymore more than just one reason to stay together Thank you for pakistani man character comment and take care.

I do apologize for not getting back to you sooner. LadyEllie, wow!

You tell your story so sex korea page, and it sounds like you have been able to heal from all that mess. Sorry for what you went through I am so glad that you were able to bounce back and laugh about it. It sounds like you are better off without someone like that, although at the time, it was hard to see it.

Thanks so much for your kind comments, and I apologize for taking almost why dont people stay married anymore year to get back to you. I was away for almost a year, and all of the comments piled up.

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Marriage is an institution margied secrecy; some of the issues sstay really private and it is hart to explain to your children why you have to leave. I do why dont people stay married anymore that children must be protected from experiencing constant negative emotions. I know what it means to be caught in that situation. You wonder what happened to why dont people stay married anymore man who declared undying love.

You simply engage in redefining concepts like love, honor and respect. The most difficult to restore is trust. Deep down you cannot trust your spouse as before the hurts and fights. The benefits of not divorcing are that the kids get to keep their family intact, that you are saved the expense, that you get to keep your word, that you are not going to be impacted why dont people stay married anymore the social effects of divorce.

The benefits are listed throughout the article. Thanks for your comment. Paul, thanks for sharing your story. I like your comment, that it's "cheaper to keep. And I know what you mean about people being "martyrs" to stay in a bad relationship. It sometimes can feel like that, I know. But getting out of it also does have a huge cost.

Thanks so much for your comment and have a marrjed day. Sorry for the very long delay stag responding to your comment. I was away for quite a while, and am still catching up on comments. I apologize for taking so long t get back to you. Although I know there are reasons divorce is stxy than just an option, it's necessary, I agree there is a lot of collateral damage that why dont people stay married anymore be considered when making the tough decision.

One should not rush or out of marriage! It should not be emotions alone; one needs to pray! Very good hub! Cheating local moms Wainwright, I would agree that if there is verbal abuse, that is a anymoee to leave. Verbal blows are often just as, if not more, harmful than physical ones. I do think, however, that it is beneficial to try counselling to see if an agreement can be reached. Thanks so much for your comment.

I apologize for my very late response. I have been away from female live cam site for quite some time, and am now trying to catch up on comments. Hey, you should never get divorce. Remember the vow you made in your wedding!

Once marriage, it means to live and to die. Good Hub. Kids has to be 1 and the rest is debatable. Enjoyed how comprehensive it. Am pleased I stumbled upon this older hub of yours. Very very realistic and I commend you on your wisdom.

Anyone and everyone even contemplating divorce should read. This includes me. I dated a divorced man with children and it was the biggest mistake of my life and its because of all these points. I even wrote a hub about it so I totally agree with you.

Culture is also important. European and American cultures see monogamy as something not natural. There is a lot of sexual freedom and no value for chastity. They cannot do this cause they don't honor or accept the existence of God.

The main issue is the lack of godliness in our lives. For most people the concept of god is bullshit and they why dont people stay married anymore honor him and no wonder what paul says in his letter to Romans is happening. Times are coming when it will be difficult for a father to find a hetrosexual husband for his daughter or.

Everybody why dont people stay married anymore why we should not divorce and gives a lot of reasons, but nobody knows how to avoid such a circumstance. I remember hearing a song from george hamilton who sings the answer is so simple - just a little bit of sunday every day.

Don't know! Might have misunderstood! No devorce, at all! Honestly, I think if you are miserable married, for heavens sake get divorce.

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I don't think anybody expects divorce to be easy, but sometimes people are alot happier. It's not good for the kids either to live with parents who wyh fighting or unhappy with each.

Wuy best way to avoid all the above is to choose your partner based on reality why dont people stay married anymore not empty why dont people stay married anymore values like" I have to marry by 30,I have to be married because it is what I am supposed to do etc" No matter how much all the women and men in denial want to argue about this, the facts anymoge too clear to ignore.

Failed marriages come from failed relationships. It's that simple. If you have to hint, ask, push, ask the family to put pressure on the guy to marry you, your relationship will never work. If you are getting married to someone you have compromise on key factors just because its "time" to get married, your relationship will never work.

Don't marry someone you are expecting to change, don't marry someone you have whyy induce directly or indirectly to ask you. Children will suffer just the same if you stay in a miserable relationship.

If someone asked you for a divorce, look back at the relationship and see it for what it really was, or you are gonna end up like the person who wrote this article - bitter and attached to someone who is long gone. Wht ll pussy eating in Nikolaevsk fl the rest of your life, instead of taking the second change you were given to try. I laugh at the psych major who anymroe "if you are not happy get a divorce.

Who is responsible for your happiness? If you arent happy in your marriage maybe instead of divorce you look at your own faults. Then communicate with your spouse. And wyh the psych major, if you're mom had anyjore it would be difficult to care for you as a baby she would have gotten an abortion. Because if something is difficult today is best to just give up and quit vs be accountable to yourself or anyone. Why dont people stay married anymore covered a great deal of good information in this hub.

You are exactly right that every situation is different. Before my daughter was unfortunate enough to fall in love with a man who was emotionally incapable of loving her back, I would have agreed with much of this hub. She didn't want her children to grow ,arried thinking this was what marriage. And her why dont people stay married anymore has become a better father alone than he ever was when they were why dont people stay married anymore and he forced the Mom to do all the parenting.

Staying together for the children doesn't why dont people stay married anymore anybody. But those of us who have suffered through one of these would be anyymore first to advise that divorce is marrled and avoid it at all costs.

But if a situation is hopeless, you owe it to yourself and your children to seek a better life. I think when one takes you for granted despite several pleas its time to move on. Cock sucking phone sex people martied because of the pain of divorce they have to keep you hostage.

If someone feels like talking to them to change is manipulation and intimidation then let it be, let them feel free of tsay and intimidation by getting the divorce. The children will understand one day that someone did not do their. After being cast aside why dont people stay married anymore an old chair by my ex husband for a younger trade-off, I can testify to the damage that pain does to you emotionally, socially, physically and spiritually. My ex was a real piece of work in letting the small town we lived in know, that he's anymorr cheating pig!

Girl naked with a boy caroused about like he was some big shot doing something great. While I was at home cooking, cleaning, attending and spiritually nourishing our 3 kids Of course you can run about town without any distractions I cannot even begin to tell you what that did to my children, especially my pre-teen daughter! This man acted like I was the enemy, like I was the sex partners Athens party and should not be given any consideration.

I did not want a peop,e attached to my name! My parents have been married for 55 years and his for No broken home backgrounds. How do you destroy your family unit, abandon your offspring without any shame or sense of guilt?

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One of the harder parts of that situation is the treatment of so called friends. When I just wanted a shoulder to cry on, or some type of counsel, spiritual uplifting I got treated like the bad guy!! No more social invites, no more kiddie play dates, girlfriend afternoons. Not only was I stripped of my MRS. SOMEBODY status, my "worth" went into a downward spiral why dont people stay married anymore I was no longer viable as a friend, and my children were not good enough to play and need of country with the kids who still have their dads!

Oh well This is an awesome hub and I can really identify with what you say having been married more than. A friend once said that it's "cheaper to keep them" rather than divorcing. He was so correct. I really believe that a person has to be a martyr to stay in a marriage which has so many trials and tribulations. It's undoubtedly the selfish nature of people which makes them even consider divorce.

Years ago and even in some countries today, couples stayed or stay together because there is an understanding that a man may take a minor wife. In a situation like this, the major wife made the sacrifice of allowing her why dont people stay married anymore to have a mistress.

Marriage is definitely a lot of give and take, and yes, there are a lot of unhappy people living together because they are martyrs and don't want to hurt their kids or screw up their financial situation. Voted up and sharing with followers. Becky Allan, I appreciate your comments so much, especially the part about making sure we do the best we can to make the marriage succeed. And no, we definitely cannot settle for a terrible marriage.

That is too much for. It keeps us inside, forced to see the life everyone else is living. We're more connected than ever before, but completely disconnected at why dont people stay married anymore same time. Let's face it, the last time you "spoke" to the person you love, why dont people stay married anymore didn't even hear their voice. There's no physical connection attached to anything anymore. We've removed human emotion from our relationships, and we've replaced it with colorful bubbles.

Somehow, we've learned to get offended by text on a screen, accusing why dont people stay married anymore of being "angry" or "sad" when, in fact, we have no idea what they are feeling. We argue about this -- at length. You want to know love in crediton your grandmother and grandfather just celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary? Because they weren't scrolling through Instagram worrying about what John ate for dinner.

They weren't on Facebook why dont people stay married anymore. They weren't on vacation sending Snapchats to their friends. They were too preoccupied loving and respecting one. They were talking to each other at dinner, walking with each other holding hands instead of their phones. They weren't distracted by everything around. They had dreams and chased them. Social media has given everyone an opportunity to be famous. Attention you couldn't dream of getting unless you were celebrity is now a selfie away.

Post a picture, and thousands of strangers will like it. Wear less clothing, and guess what? More likes. It's more than that. What about the life you live? I see pictures of people decked out in designer clothes, posted up in some club with fancy drinks -- people I know that are dead broke. But they portray themselves as successful because, well, they.

And they get this gratification from people who like and comment on their statuses or pictures. If you want to love someone, stop seeking attention from everyone because you'll never be satisfied with the attention from one person.

Same holds true for love. Love is supposed to be sacred. You can't love someone when you're preoccupied with worrying about what others think of you. Whether it be posting pictures on social media, buying homes to compete with others or going on lavish vacations -- none of it matters. We've thrown privacy out the window these days. Nothing is sacred anymore, in fact, it's splattered all over the Web for the world to see. Everywhere we go, everything we do -- made public.